With much love to my brother-in-law ZACHARY MONDINDE NJEUMA
My dearest Zac,
You were my brother-in-law, friend , mentor and father figure. Even though
you had only two biological children of your own, you raised so many of us
like your other children. I always felt very good when you referred to me
affectionately as your first child. This was indeed true in many ways.
From my tenderest age I cannot recall any curve l turned in life without
the sacrifice, love and firm support of my beloved sister Limunga, your
spouse , whom you lovingly called "my Limunga." When you married her you
unconditionally joined her to raise me.
You both took me to Yaounde before you even had a first salary or your own
children. What a sacrifice that must have been! From then on you both
gave me the support and guidance I needed to be independent, competitive
and an achiever. I particularly remain indebted to you for my well
grounded analytical and communication skills. The first virtue I learnt
from you and sister Limunga was to invest in people and to look beyond
myself to be of service to the community. You were a very strong pillar in
my life and took great pride in all of my achievements. Coming to help me
relocate from Arusha upon a new appointment or tagging along my mum and
your mother-in-law to visit me wherever my job took me where all
hallmarks of the very special relationship we shared.
Three weeks ago when I came to see you in Yaounde, I could tell that you
were sick but I never saw death. I was very encouraged by your phone call
to me in Kinshasa only a few days before your passing that you were
getting better, not knowing that this was actually a parting call. Though I
was very shocked with the news of your passing thereafter, I am gratified
and comforted by that undying mark of affection.
I thank God for the very exclusive things that He blessed you and your
progeny to achieve. You blazed your very own historical trail and
thankfully lived long enough to see that your name and that of your spouse
have become household names not only in Cameroon but in the world.
The family will miss you sorely but we shall never forget you and you will
always remain someone whom I am very proud indeed to call my brother.
May God receive you and keep you under his loving and eternal care.
Your sister-in-law
Elsie Ngowo Effange-Mbella
Senior Gender Adviser
MONUC, Kinshasa, DRC