REFLECTIONS
Remembering My Friend – Professor Martin Zac NJEUMA
Nwayi,
As one of your very close friends, it is in order for me to share with the world the sentiments in my soul aroused by your passing.
We met at the beginning of 1954 when we both were seeking admission to Sasse College. The 56 years following our meeting has seen our friendship grow from strength to strength and at the time of your passing we had become the closest of brothers.
I remember our days in London. Whenever we could afford the time, you and Limunga on the one hand and I and my spouse on the other hand competed fiercely at the game of monopoly. It had to be “strictly by the rules”.
I remember very well when I had major surgery at MGH, Boston. You were the first to call to wish me a speedy recovery. You told me, it was not yet time for either of us to go.
When my parents died, you were there to support all the way. We were inseparable.
I admired your brilliance and strength of character. When you felt strongly that the authorities at UB had failed to give you the due credit for didactic material you had helped engineer to UB, you respected the decision the authorities had taken though your conviction on the subject remained unchanged.
Just a few weeks ago, you told me your daughters had arranged a holiday for you to visit Egypt with them. This offer from your daughters brought out to the fore the tremendous love you had for your children and your spouse. You fully well appreciated the effort, the expense and the affection the children had put together to make the plans for the holiday possible. Even though your health showed signs of failing, you were determined to make the trip to Cairo to savour the affection the companionship with the children would have brought.
I remember the number of times you told me how much your children, your spouse, your family meant to you. Perhaps more than most people, I know what they meant to you.
You often said to me that we are victims of our success. I shared with you the joys of some of the great triumphs of your life and felt your heartbeat when despair seemed to take hold of you. Today, I see clearly what you meant. Victims truly we may be but I doubt that you would have wished it any other way.
Nwayi, my dear brother, our fraternal ties will remain for ever. You were brave, intelligent and generous. I have the confidence that your foresight and your reflections about the life hereafter must have been prepared for well in advance of today.
I know your generosity, your kindness, your love will all combine to lead you prepare a worthy place for us as we follow you into the grand beyond.
Once again, Nwayi, farewell
Sam EKONTANG ELAD
Chairman Cameroon OIC
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