Uncle, you were the glue that held it all together. The one everyone ran to when they had a problem. It must have been a tremendous burden but it was one you embraced enthusiastically.
I vividly remember spending some of the long holidays in the 80's with you and aunty Limunga at the Bastos house where you would challenge me to write essays on abstract topics and comment on my penchant for 'big' words.
I recall the non judgemental stance you took during my late teens when even I would admit I had become a bit of a 'problem'. I distinctly remember you referring to that period in my life as 'youthful exuberance'
During my trips home in Dec 2006/7 and again in Dec 2007/8 we had lunch at the OIC restaurant in Buea where you would not entertain the notion of me paying. How very typical!!
I had become aware of your ill health in recent months and the effect on your sight but never imagined you would be leaving us. The memories however will live on. Sleep well.